While watching G putting up the kitchen furniture piece by piece, my thinking explore to some things. One, is being in this status of life now....being married & living another phase of life. It has been every womans dream to be married & settled to someone who truly love them. Yes! I definitely achieved that dream... settled & happy being committed for life. When I look at G's effort in putting up those pieces or parts of the kitchen furniture. It's like also putting up or building the pieces of our life now. One has to make such effort to make things work out fine. In all honesty, G is giving so much effort even at the time when we haven't started this relationship yet. He made such effort to pursue me and indeed he is successful. He had me now & we are together finally. I still remember those days...the first time I met him...and some of our first times together. He was such a gentleman even till now...he respects me as a woman and as I am. The very day I said my 'I DO' to spent my lifetime loving him marks the day to start a whole new life together. I know, putting up every pieces is not that all easy..it needs proper planning and study as to how & where things should exactly be placed. And yet, if one just do its share, work hand in hand....everything will be easy.
I would admit that I had my moments then being in a complicated situation..I had my own crossroads to take. And that if I am ready to commit myself to this man totally stranger from my culture. What brought us more together is our beliefs and faith with each other. We join both our forces to make it through till this time. No more doubts, apprehensions...maybe this is what they call destiny. We are really destined to be with each other. There were also times that I was tired of following where to put each pieces of life..but never did G left me behind..he guides me all thoughout the way..to put me back on track again. That he was just there all along. He's such a determined man eversince..so sincere in everything and much more now that we are really bond forever. There were times, that I miz us just being single..and still just sweethearts..not still thinking about being committed in this marriage. Those days we're both extremely so carefree. I miz those times too..funny times.. where he would patiently wait for me at work. He masters really the art of waiting..waiting when we can be together without time & distance that limits us. Being in a long distance relationship really needs a lot of patience, determination coupled with great faith towards each other. Three or more years is quite a long wait especially for G. It busted me too...sooo tiring! So glad now. With all efforts, we made it all successfully in the end. We are together now & forever will be. Much more, we will put up each pieces of our life together...no turning back..no more doubts whether this is the right piece to take.. It may not be the right but we are ready to face what lies ahead of us . Never will I get tired again...Never!
I would admit that I had my moments then being in a complicated situation..I had my own crossroads to take. And that if I am ready to commit myself to this man totally stranger from my culture. What brought us more together is our beliefs and faith with each other. We join both our forces to make it through till this time. No more doubts, apprehensions...maybe this is what they call destiny. We are really destined to be with each other. There were also times that I was tired of following where to put each pieces of life..but never did G left me behind..he guides me all thoughout the way..to put me back on track again. That he was just there all along. He's such a determined man eversince..so sincere in everything and much more now that we are really bond forever. There were times, that I miz us just being single..and still just sweethearts..not still thinking about being committed in this marriage. Those days we're both extremely so carefree. I miz those times too..funny times.. where he would patiently wait for me at work. He masters really the art of waiting..waiting when we can be together without time & distance that limits us. Being in a long distance relationship really needs a lot of patience, determination coupled with great faith towards each other. Three or more years is quite a long wait especially for G. It busted me too...sooo tiring! So glad now. With all efforts, we made it all successfully in the end. We are together now & forever will be. Much more, we will put up each pieces of our life together...no turning back..no more doubts whether this is the right piece to take.. It may not be the right but we are ready to face what lies ahead of us . Never will I get tired again...Never!
As I retire from this deep t
hinking, I had this great realization that I really can't live now without G in my life. He made a great deal to change me....completes me as a woman and as a person. And that we promised to each other that we will not get tired of loving each other....this would be our ultimate key, to successfully build the life that we would want to live forever...so we can live happily every after.
hinking, I had this great realization that I really can't live now without G in my life. He made a great deal to change me....completes me as a woman and as a person. And that we promised to each other that we will not get tired of loving each other....this would be our ultimate key, to successfully build the life that we would want to live forever...so we can live happily every after. Pieces of life....it's like also putting up a puzzle....each pieces of it is really important to fully view the whole picture. In life, to build that wonderful lasting bound of love in a relationship. Never be afraid to take each pieces of your so called life...just enjoy every moment of it.
1 comment:
Should I say.. G completes you? Kudos to him for holding on and being patient with your long distance relationship before. It's not easy, I can imagine.
Oh, Ai! malapit na! Take care and I wish and pray for your safe delivery! :)
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