A Decade Later: Becoming Me

Seventeen years ago -2008 to be exact, I wrote a post while standing at the crossroads of self-discovery—a bit uncertain yet hopeful, full of questions about purpose, success, and the delicate balance between self and others. 

You can read that blog here: Looking for my Purpose

I see that version of me now with deep compassion, and that I can't help but smile. 😁😊

Because today, I have answers—not all, but enough to walk with certainty.

I'm a fulfilled mum now, raising two teenagers who continue to shape and challenge me in the most beautiful ways. My love for them is no longer just ambitious. It's rooted, intentional, and grounded in presence. I’m still devoted, but I’ve also learned that loving them doesn’t mean losing myself. In fact, I've discovered that the more I love and know myself, the better I show up for them.

And oh, how much I’ve come to love myself. 💓

Self-love isn’t just a buzzword anymore. It’s a daily practice. I'm more focused now, more self-aware. I no longer feel the same need to mirror myself through others' eyes. I know who I am, even if I’m still evolving. I’ve embraced the truth that we are all works in progress—fluid, changing, growing.

I still pursue goals, but now with grace and fire. I'm living with so much passion—especially in the arts. Where photography once gave me light, writing expresses my enormous thoughts, and painting now gives me depth. Through every brushstroke, I pour emotions that words sometimes cannot carry. Art has become my second soul.

And love? I’ve been happily married for 19 years to G, and I can honestly say we have built something truly successful. Not because it’s perfect, but because it’s honest, committed, and constantly nurtured. We’ve grown alongside each other, and that kind of partnership is something I treasure deeply.

Back then, I needed to redefine myself. Today, I can define myself—with clarity, confidence, and a quiet joy. I’ve learned that success isn’t just about material things or even ticking off goals. It’s about alignment. About knowing your worth. About doing things that light up your spirit.

I’m still climbing, still reaching—but now with firmer feet and a lighter heart. And most importantly, I’m enjoying the view along the way.

To the woman I was: thank you for never stop dreaming!

To the woman I am: keep glowing and evolving!

To the woman I’m becoming: I can’t wait to meet you.

Cheers xo,

Ai